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In The Life of An Autistic
Woman Born 1950 London England. What An Extraordinary
Life. How Did She Survive?
Ask Dr. Tony - February 2023 ANXIOUS 17,107 views Jan 31, 2023
Ask Tony Attwood excellent, excellent information on ASP. Addresses
Subjects Addressed in this Episode:
Diagnosis
- ASD and Narcissistic Personality Disorder
- Myers Briggs and ASD
Telling the family they have it too!
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Living with Autism
- Estrangement and ASD -
- Common physical health problems -
- Psychosis and autism. What's the difference?
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Depression
How do I deal with this?
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Catastrophizing and Anxiety
"Help!"
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Masking and Making and Keeping Friends -
Multiple masks for different audiences -
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Empathetic Attunement -
ASD and animal love -
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Intimacy Dating Sex and Marriage -
"Neither of us like the idea of a wedding" -
-Asperger's and PTSD -
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We Are All Unique And Different
It Depends On Our Upbringing
What Our Parents Look Like
Autism Comes:
In all different shapes and sizes, they have their own unique personalities.
How they look has a lot to do with their Genetics, DNA. How they have
been brought up makes a big difference in so many ways. Genetics,
are also involved with how they handle their situations and are able
to cope. What they do have in common they do not like change,
need to control their environment, looks like they are self centered
in many ways when it comes to family issues. They love animals
and can relate to them better than people because they
love you back unconditionally and do not judge.
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Having this syndrome they are very smart, highly focusing on things that
interest them and forgetting to eat sometimes, they are in their own zone.
Learned masking to be able to fit in, anxiety consuming them can become
daunting, if they cannot calm their brain down it's exhausting. Finding in
everyway possible to survive especially if they are empaths living in this
unfamiliar world of theirs. What's wonderful!
They are Resilient, Awesome and Authentic
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Actors~ Poets~ Authors~ Designers~ Hairdressers. Many are in the arts because
they are extremely creative and visual and have learned to live in this vast
universe by studying others, and have become very good at it. Because they
love animals and having that bond could go into that field by working
with them. They are inquisitive wanting to know more and thinking
outside thebox. Some have become Psychics in the Spiritual field and
are very good at their Craft, because being highly Sensitive could
have Gifts others don’t have. Being Empaths picking up Vibes,
Having an Antenna Reaching Far and Wide.
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If they don’t understand themselves and their gifts will become confusing,
cause them many problems, bringing on high Anxiety second guessing
themselves. Especially when older, it's very Important to look after their
Health & Well Being by Building their Immune System making it
Vibrant and Strong!
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Not having the right Guidance and Support this will affect them
Tremendously. Sometimes not Comprehending the Consequences
of their actions. Some turning to street Drugs getting into Trouble.
Others using Alcohol or both trying to be able to Function
the Best way Possible. OCD can be overwhelming and
Some having auto immune disorders in their family
as on her mother's side of the family. Many could
be under the Autism Spectrum and having no idea
Why They Are Suffering!!!
They need to Calm their Nerves and Brain down, lower their Stress.
That's one of the most important things for them. Some wanting
to be left alone to do their own thing. It's exhausting picking
up energies they do not need or want. To be able to live on
this planet and she's been here for many years born 1950
in London England. Autistic souls seem to seek each other
out and many living together especially in this day and age.
They do not like all the pomp and ceremony of marriage, too stressful
doesn't mean they will not get married it's usually for their family and
perhaps for their children. They would rather spend their money on
other things. They feel comfortable in each other's presence even
though they can drive each other crazy sometimes. They just want
to be accepted for who they are do not want negativity and have
a strong will. When they meet another who are on the same
wavelength getting their persona they can be themselves.
The stronger Asperger's gene is on the father's side of the family
she knows her father had Asperger's the way he acted and came
across. Can understand now why he acted like he did. We do
not realize when younger what our parents had been through
and how they felt to do the things they do. That's the reason
they were like they were. wouldn't it be wonderful to have
the knowledge we have now things would be different.
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TONY ATTWOOD'S SON
Even Dr. Tony Attwood's son had a lot of difficulties when growing up and not knowing he had Asperger's. He ended up in prison, that's what can happen getting on the wrong side of the law; with a person under the Autism Spectrum.
The reason why? Sometimes it's hard to detect in families with the gene, and then if they do not get the support they desperately need. Don't forget Autism Spectrum was only discovered widely in Males in the 90s. Females
later because they were Good at Masking. As she had
Shared in her Third Video becoming a Chameleon.
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More On Autism
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Wanting to fit in and have Friends. They can be funny and can make
great comedians.They are authentic being themselves that's what
make sit Hilarious Look at these Asperger's Male Comedians. They
are funny because they don't care what they say and if you want
to have a Good Laugh go Here One of these comedians was
on Great Britain Got Talent Simon Cowel couldn't stop laughtng
Now quite a few of the Younger Generation especially autistic thinking if they
change their Gender. A He to a She and Visa Versa they will feel better,
to find out later it was the Biggest Mistake for some of them. They
do not realize the medication and hormones they have to take
for the rest of their lives. The operations are very painful and
then to find out they want to go back to their original gender
and some will never be able to have children. Trans Regret
Many have no idea they are autistic and never been diagnosed and if they
have usually with Bipolar~OCD ~ADD ~Depression~ Personality Disorder~
PTSD and everything else under the sun even schizophrenia. Never with
the autism and medication doesn't help a lot of these children Why?
You have to get to the root cause with diet understanding, it's not
easy. It's dam hard most of the time why didn't she give up?
She shares this in her first video how they help their son
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Because females have learned Masking hiding behind their
facade just like her Becoming a Chameleon. They know they are different
and have all sorts of careers. Teachers ~Engineers ~Doctors ~Politicians
~Psychiatrists. ~Psychologists ~Scientists ~Philosophers ~Inventors extremely
focused have come out with Incredible, Remarkable Inventions
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Both Tesla & Einstein had many failures and both had a hard life, never
gave up in what they believed in; Highly focused and Brilliant minds.
The hardships they went through and look at what they Achieved.
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High Functioning On The Autism Spectrum
We are all different like colours of the rainbow as she has said, it depends on our upbringing. Where we are from, our DNA how we were treated and what our parents looked like. We come in all shapes and sizes. What we do have in common sensitive to our environment, suffer with social anxiety. Tony Attwood explains it very well .
Would You Think These Two Females Were Autistic?
On The Autism Spectrom
Unfortunately this is why many a female haven't been diagnosed. Kim is now proud of who she is and what a life she's lived. She was fearless and in away that was because of her mother teaching her many lessons. To go out into the world and learn for herself. She always wonders the things that had been different causing her low self esteem and not being able to get an education. Would she have become: A Teacher ~Actor ~Doctor ~Psychologists ~Author ~Poet? She was very interested in the human brain. Who knows! That wasn't her life path and why she was sent here. She knows she's very smart otherwise she wouldn't be where she is today and met two intellectual men who fell for her honesty and out going personality Thank You Mum For Being You!